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Probably
the most difficult issue to talk about. Can words express something what
goes beyond words? Even more difficult: Can a person who is limited to
one's 'personality' can grasp something which goes beyond oneself? Words
can just be used as a 'code' expressing an experience which is totally
individual and can only be 'understood' from the same state of being or
awareness. Words are mainly used to express experiences and knowledge coming
out of this are staying on the intellectual level and so serve mostly to
find self confirmation, because the person is identified with one's knowledge.
If the experiences go beyond the intellect and one describes them, then
they are just symbols which are interpreted subjectively with fantasies
or put into boxes like 'mysticism' etc. So I quest if there is any sense
in talking about something which goes beyond one's intellect and personality.
But I am going to do it anyway. If you followed my writing up to here then
you might as well read on...
One
might 'believe' in something and then this is kept as a mental concept
or image, more or less colored by emotions. This can be confirmed by people
with similar concepts or images and so reinforcing the firmness of one's
standpoint. This has nothing to do with experiences. Beliefs are concepts,
there is nothing to argue with somebody who feels comfortable having beliefs.
This is part of the survival system of the human species and worked well
for quite some time. But evolution goes on and probably it is time now
to go further than concepts and even further than the confirmation of experiences
of limited fields of existence, going beyond to be able to expand into
another level...
The
question is who wants this? These personality confirmation games give at
least a kind of security because of the since long time established ways
on all kind of daily experienced levels which goes together with the tradition
of
established beliefs and concepts and images. The painful suffering in one's
daily life experience has its place and also the suffering of disease and
any kind of personal problems. Reasons are mostly explained and the way
of fighting against not wanted symptoms is as well established. Any available
force is used to fight for something or against something on all levels.
Who has the power, and this is the main challenge in our society, will
use this to reach the common goals and eliminate whatever is disturbing,
all the other strive into the same direction, although being the 'underdogs'.
Finding the cause of a conflict, problem or disease and integrating it
in one's growing process seldom is considered. The attitude of victim and
conqueror never worked really well because the conqueror is never truly
satisfied, wanting more and more and being satisfied by suffering is just
the opposite extreme of the same measurement. There is no real satisfaction
and no true happiness, but there is the given margin in which people
can move in known manners.
"Fibromyalgia
as a new disease sets a landmark where one only can pass by changing something
profound and essential about one's perception."
This
new way is only accessible by going beyond established ways of thinking,
leaving behind worn out behavior and with this parts of the so called personality.
This new disease is forcing one to take self responsibility,
leaving behind the established dependency to the system, which leaves no
space for any kind of initiative or motivation beyond it's margin. With
Fibromyalgia the medical system has no response, "there is no cure". The
system fails to give an answer. They do the same as always: Treating symptoms
with chemicals, alternative or not, it doesn't make much difference, and
then treating the side effects with other chemicals, etc. The card house
of traditional medicine is near to collapse. With Fibromyalgia it will
become clear. Cancer, Aids, Parkinson, Alzheimer were still sorted into
the files of somehow known reasons and the promise to find cures were keeping
people silent and in dependency, but with Fibromyalgia this ends.
There
is a possibility to get out of the pain and suffering from Fibromyalgia,
- this is valid for any kind of disease -, by taking self responsibility,
questioning oneself and taking the initiative to heal oneself. This means
to go a step beyond oneself and also beyond the established health system.
This indeed is serious and for sure not every body is capable for it. The
medical system should assist this process and the MD should be a helper,
but society is obviously too far away from such an evolutionary step and
so one must do first a clear cut, being aware that fighting in the old
way and being in total dependency has to end.
This
seems to me the only way to truly heal and so one is forced to do this
step. It is a challenge which needs the preparation of what happened because
with all those suffering... - most people with Fibromyalgia are not young.
So they might be prepared to confront the situation and themselves.
One of the difficult aspects is that there is hardly any support from society,
not even from family or friends. But this is part of the suffering and
challenge and makes that one is pushed even stronger towards and beyond
oneself. There is support available, one has to look for it, although one
has to be very alert because most of the support offered is just confirming
the old attitude. And then there is the severe difficulty because of the
lack of energy caused by the disease. Here it starts that one has to keep
one's remaining energy together and concentrate on what is essential and
here it starts that one has to go beyond oneself to find a new source
of energy.
What
is the most important? If one is lost in one's pain then the most
important seems to get rid of the pain. But is the pain killer from the
doctor's prescription a solution? They argue that first you need
to be free of pain, then you can look for a creative solution. Probably
most will forget to ask any question once they have less pain. Indeed a
difficult situation. I rejected all my life any kind of pain killer, so
maybe this gives me a different position and even I had strong pain with
the Fibromyalgia I was always looking for a solution without taking pills.
Maybe
the most significant was that I never felt like a victim and never got
totally lost in my suffering and pain. There was and is always something
within me which stays 'cool' and continues to observe, even in the darkest
situation and in the strongest pain. That is also the reason why I don't
fall into depressions. Even feeling really bad there is still an entity
present within me which is aware of the situation and so I can pull myself
out of it and then doing a creative step to find a solution. Holding this
position, suffering and pain is less penetrating.
You
might ask now how this is possible, how can this be done? There can't be
done much. It is the stage of a 'growing process' which in my case was
furthered through many years of meditation. Coming to meditation is already
a significant step in one's personal growing process. Who is not ready
for it will not have the urge for meditation and probably will not continue
with it once having started. So I am not going to convince anybody that
'meditation' is an essential part of a healing process, but there is no
doubt about it: In fact it is. What meditation
is I have described in another page.
Update:
Meditation many people are rejecting,
but there is something they might be more open for, I have written a leaflet
with information about it and a clear advice, so that every body can do
it by oneself immediately, not needing any seminar or personal advice.
Go to: 'Stress Release Exercise'.
With
Fibromyalgia one is pushed into a transformation process and one will probably
come to the point, where - due to the permanent pain and fatigue and due
to the feeling of being left alone - that nothing matters anymore and one
only want to die. This state is not felt as something negative and indeed
I believe it isn't. It is a necessary step in one's process of transformation.
What of course doesn't mean that one should kill oneself. Of course NOT!
Because this would only be the intention to escape from suffering and obviously
wouldn't be a creative solution! Destroying what is causing one's problems
is never a creative solution! - although this is common.
To
follow the usual behavior of eliminating the so called cause (which indeed
isn't) and in the individual case it would mean self-destruction as a last
step of being a victim in an endless fight. The wish to die can be seen
in it's feeling value as a positive transition, understanding that this
is a step and from then on values might change and also the view. What
seemed to be important until now, has lost it's significance. With this
something new might show up and because of the lost position it creates
space, - which might be seen as a opportunity for something new and better...
And indeed this is inevitable: One can only create something new or something
new only can happen, when starting with 'zero', one has to go through one's
chaos, leaving one's identifications and properties behind... Probably
this has to do with 'perception' and 'interpretation', to be capable for
this one has to become 'clean' or 'empty' and this is only possible when
going beyond one's until now so precious 'personality'.
When one realizes that all the money
gained in so many years of hard work doesn't help one to change anything
about one's situation. Even spending a lot of money on doctors, clinics
and treatments, it is becoming clearer with each day which passes, that
nobody can give back one's health, one can't buy it for all the money saved.
There is only one solution: A shift in one's awareness, stepping out
of the old worn out way of thinking, stepping out of dependency and instead
of this taking responsibility for oneself.
In
a certain way this would be a step where one is 'new born' and an unknown
field might open up... In one of these old books it is written: 'To be
reborn one must die first...' What for sure doesn't mean that we need to
leave our body behind. Our body is the field where we make our life experiences
and in a good part, especially with Fibromyalgia, we are pushed to work
on the other parts of our existence. I just can tell you and I don't know
if it will help you: You can trust your inbuilt growing system, you don't
need to worry about most of things you did until now. Ready to die one
can go on into a process of healing in a much more open way than ever before.
If one still worries, that shows that one trust not yet enough and still
is holding on old images 'how it should be', so there might be a few steps
more to go before real trust can happen. And also I can tell you: You
are NOT alone!
I can't
do much more than just expressing what comes into my mind because
even though I'm recovered from Fibromyalgia, I am still in a healing
process myself and it leaves me with hardly any energy left. I hope that
with this Web site there opens a space which gives opportunity for a creative
exchange so that together we might gain 'a new sight in a brighter light'.
Back to daily reality: What can be done? How can one find
one's way out of the labyrinth? How can one deal with one's personal chaos?
Leaving all this used pseudo security behind, then what can give direction
and something to hold on?
It is the trust in
oneself, the trust that one is guided by one's own growing force. Trusting
that whatever happens is a challenge and just the right thing, even if
it seems unbearable. That gives the position to stay relaxed and more open
in a certain way, at least being able to observe the situation more cool
as before when being absorbed. Being in this void how can one make decisions,
not knowing what to do and not having enough intellectual knowledge? Indeed
a difficult situation and no wonder that people fall easily back into the
old attitude to depend on authority. There is a way for orientation: One's
intuition. In fact not possible to grasp on and not possible to be developed
in the used manner by striving for a goal. Intuition can't be gained by
some technique. Intuition opens up by itself as the result in one's growing
process. There can't be done much about it, it is the result of a new attitude
towards life!
What indeed furthers
one's intuition is meditation (and the same SRE)
and this is not really a 'doing' this is more a 'being', what means it
is the result of one's state of being.
When I am trying now to observe my emotions, I realize
that to do so I have to clear up first my 'astral energy', what means that
my energy management has to be optimized. This for sure will also serve
my healing process, so I will look into this:
Being aware that we are
all trapped more or less - in every aspects of life - in a social concept
which is mainly ruled by materialistic values.
Being aware that we are
wasting good part of our energy by being attracted and following what is
offered around us. From common goals in general to daily behavior, alimentation
and entertainment, people we deal with and to places we are going. We need
to realize that we are manipulated in our decisions by people with materialistic
interests and we need to make a clear cut to be able to choose.
As a consequence I decided
to quit watching TV. Since quite some time I can see that watching TV is
wasting time. Not only this: It is indeed messing up one's energy. The
abundance of violence and triviality is sucking, much more than we
are aware of. I am specially interested in this medium because I believe
it has or could have an important impact on consciousness of humanity and
I would like to make an input there but until now I had no opportunity.
There is so much junk offered and even the few good programs and movies
are not worth the effort, when one got hooked up and watches others which
are worth nothing.
Within the Internet I have suspended all my activities
in news groups and in most mailing lists and I will only continue
at the moment with the health project and my Web site. I tried again with
a mailing list but after only a few posts I gave up, there was no positive
response. People only feel offended and a creative exchange seems not possible.
You can read my posts: "What do we sweep under the rug?"
"Immune System and Personality" and my "Response
to a Comment".
Within a healing or growing process a lot of movement
seems to be part of it. At least that I can say from my own process: During
the last days there were coming up many thoughts and feelings, some on
a personal level and others going beyond this, not to talk about the many
things happening on the outside...
It is obvious that humanity seen as a whole is sick. It
is not necessary to remember that there has been no peace for many centuries
and that there is such a discrepancy on this planet: Many are living in
abundance and are sick because of this and many millions of others are
dying because they don't have the minimum to fulfill their needs. There
are many signs which make it obvious that humanity is sick and destroying
itself, it would fill a book.
I try to understand
the many reactions which happen on different levels of this planet with
all different countries and which could maybe seen as 'healing reactions'.
These happenings are mostly violent and causing enormous suffering. But
also I can see that on the global level diseases of humanity are treated
in the same way as it is done on the personal level by medical treatment
and the attitude is the same. As long as disease is seen as something bad
which has to be eliminated, as long this can not be a creative process,
then it is just not possible to find a creative conflict resolution. What
surprises me is, that although the knowledge is there, because there are
enough wise men on this planet, obviously this knowledge is not used by
people and not by 'world leaders'. (In fact this does not surprise me because
'leaders' are nothing more or less than the representation of the mass
behind them, so how they could be different? What they do for sure they
do with their best intention, but they are so convinced that this is the
only way, that they don't doubt this and ask for an alternative way, so
the best knowledge and the wisest advice stays unused.) In any kind of
politics, on local, country or world level, problems are still treated
like always: By fighting against the problems by trying to eliminate them,
not being able to see these problems as part of a growing process and understanding
that what ever problem shows up, that this is a reaction provoked by the
own system and that this can be used to understand the problem by going
beyond... and then being able to find a creative solution. This will for
sure cause changes within the system and this is actually not wanted. All
systems tend to keep their momentary state. There can't be any creativity
or openness. But the system is constantly provoked, from outside and inside
and therefor is reacting. Yes, the defense is always strong and will reject
any influence which does not confirm the system. But the violence which
is used for defense is causing a lot of suffering and probably this is
triggering reflection on the individual level and is furthering changes
of the suffering individual and this will create changes on the next level,
with one's partner, within one's family, in one's local community and then
further on country and global level. It seems there is a long way to go
for humanity...
One week more and I will have completed
three months of 'Sun gazing'. There
were only three or four days during this time when there was no sun shine,
all the other days I did it and sometimes twice a day. It felt best immediately
after sun rise and the minutes before the sun went down. Then the sun is
soft and doesn't hurt. I did it sitting on a chair or standing and I have
my favorite places for it. In the evening I go to the top of the hill...
Later more.
For the
moment I have nothing else to say than:
I
have recovered from Fibromyalgia!
I have written about
it in Epilog...
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