Alien will answer
your personal Questions! - His name is "Sarbi".

Aliens who come to visit our planet, are not only more advanced technically, but also are better in leading their personal life, in a more creative way than we do here on earth, what obviously needs to be improved when we look at all our suffering caused by disease, a poor state of emotions and a ruling mind.

You have the unique chance now to ask an alien something that is personal and the most important for yourself!
We are in contact with an alien who is researching the personal development of humans and as part of the study our friend is willing to answer questions that are relating to this subject.
So please do not waste this opportunity with trivial and technical questions, but ask only those questions that you feel are important for deeper understanding of yourself, your life and your challenges. You can use the form at the end of this page.

Questions & Answers:

Emma: My first question is: Why did you come to our planet Earth?
If I like your answer then I will ask a more personal question. It would be great to have a conversation with someone whose main interest is not money making or promoting oneself so I am excited to find out what aliens are like!

Answer: I came here, because the evolution of planet Earth effects the whole planet system and beyond. It is becoming more and more obvious that the human species is stuck in their growing process. The suffering as a result of this has reached a point, were self destruction seems the only way forward, individually and as a whole. This can be avoided in a creative way and I am here to give information to those individuals, who want to do something about this serious situation and are asking what the possibilities are to speed up the positive development of themselves and so with whole humanity.

* * * Nerestro: Wer bist du und was ist dein Hintergrund, wie lautet deine Geschichte?
Ich würde einen Außerirdischen gerne verstehen wollen.
Translation: Who are you and what is your background, - what is your story? I would like to understand the alien.

Answer: I can understand that you need to know about me, to be able to open up to me. It will be difficult to give details because there is hardly anything about me that is similar or can be compared to humans and their surroundings and conditions, but I will try.  I'm what you would call a 'teenager' and I'm studying 'The personal development of the human species'. My study is the reason why I'm here. The other reason is that like every body on my planet, I want to help underdeveloped and suffering beings. I have only the wisdom of a teenager, without the realization of my elders, but I believe that I will be able to answer your questions. Let's see…
 

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Isidora: I ask the question that I am asking myself and I couldn't yet find an answer to, namely:  What is the most urgent and important that we humans need to learn?

Answer: The most urgent is that humans start to be more aware. They should search for solutions for their problems within themselves, instead of at the outside by trying to change others, circumstances and surroundings. All suffering, disappointment and frustration is an accumulation of stress and will sooner or later manifest in disease.

To start with, you as a human can become critical about your habits and avoid everything that holds you in a reduced state of consciousness. That means that you make choices about what you take in and not just consume because clever salesmen make it desirable for you. Be critical about the influences you are receiving from entertainment, media and your direct surroundings. Listen to the real needs of your body, mind and emotions.

It is the most urgent that you go beyond the common materialistic world view, especially when it is masked with all kind of fake images and pictures that make it seem more spiritual than that. Learn about the manipulation that is done to humans since beginning of mankind and that has created a fake reality humans are still trying to live, with their expectations leading to stress and frustration. Learn about human nature and see why you are holding on to established conditions even though these are keeping you in a limited state. You will need to change your attitude, but this you can't learn, because any change can only be the result of your transformation when learning about yourself.

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Gelsomino: How can we "humans" live in peace?

Answer: Peace can only be the result of a state of consciousness that is realized, as an individual and as a whole, all countries living together on one planet. If people are in balance with themselves, being self responsible and relating in a direct way to whatever shows up in their daily life, then they are in peace with themselves and with each other and also with other nations. It becomes a natural state of being.

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Lord Arawn: Meeting an alien is essentially the same thing as one day meeting God and getting to ask a question, since we're all assuming these aliens know pretty much anything.
As for my question:  "Your species is advanced. I assume you've tried out a few social experiments. Tell me please if preserving individuality or switching towards a collective consciousness is a better path for humanity?"

Answer: For sure in prehistorically times all beings went through social problems, like you now here on Earth.
At my home planet, we don't need any kind of 'experiments'. A social system represents the consciousness that is in the same state as in the majority of members in the species, realized at this step of evolution. The social system can only change, and this will happen without any manipulation, when the level of awareness rises above the primitive state that it has now here on Earth. To change a chaotic, corrupt and rigid condition, one must start with oneself...

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Remus: Well, I want to ask if you have a religion or some kind of spiritual belief system like humans have?
And my follow up question is: Do you know if there is life after death? Now maybe you don't have a concept of a soul but do you have something similar to this?

Answer: It might be difficult to understand and accept, but we at our planet do not have any kind of religion or spiritual belief system, - not at all! We are not living with concepts about anything and we don't try to fulfill a certain image of how persons, conditions or situations should be! We are not bound to any rules or laws as we are responsible for ourselves and we have no need to go into conceptual dream worlds, we stay in what happens in the present moment. With other words: We don't go into a reality that is not part of living truth. With your words: We are connected with the *source* or *Creator*.
Your question about 'life after death' for us is not essential since the boundaries between life and death are not drastic and dramatic like here on Earth. Life and death are both states of *being* and the transition from one to the other can be smooth and effortless and we can do this being fully conscious about it. We don't need any concepts about it, like the existence of a 'soul, heaven or reincarnation'. Our knowledge goes beyond any individual's mind storage and is present in our continuing existence always as a common, permanent awareness.

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Teddy: It is obvious that we humans are innocent, blind, confused, ignorant, limited, narrow minded and so on, - and as an obvious result we are stressed, frustrated, disappointed and depressed. The only way out of this seems to be to become enlightened.
So my question is: How can I become enlightened? What is the best way?

Answer: Humans put most of their energy into reaching goals. That's not a bad thing by itself, but the critical question is: Where these goals are coming from? The goals do not come from within the individual, but from society outside. Most goals are part of the common mindset and serve in the first place to keep people occupied and dependent. These goals give a feeling of sense and meaning to ones life with the promise of finding satisfaction and happiness. People therefore go from one goal to the next and they are not aware of the fact that they are just turning around themselves. And so after many years of struggling, finding  themselves at the same point where they have started, realizing that all those years they were walking in circles.

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Fo: Asking an alien is a great opportunity to find answers for questions, that with our limitations, due to our so strongly established mindset and the resulting closeness, we can't find. The problem seems to be, that we are that much stuck in our self-image and all those concepts, that we are not even capable to ask the right questions. So my question would be: What are the right questions to ask, that are NOT coming out of my blindness and self-defense?

Answer: My answer is that you first need to go into a state of being that is beyond your limited identification with what you believe you are and that is manifested in your 'personality'. This for example you can do when you practice meditation, - then the 'right' questions will show up.

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Hu: My question is: I have experienced for many years now, that when I want to share something that through my personal learning and growing process I can understand as an essential truth, but that is not part of the established mindset of this society, then nobody will listen to me. Even when people are in need and the information would help them to get out of their trouble, still they reject any information that is not part of their already established mindset. Or people accept only that part what fits their knowledge and therefore misunderstand the information that was given.

Experiencing this again and again, I came to the conclusion that it is better to not share, also to avoid the often angry defense reactions I got. But not to say anything also doesn't feel right. I can see that proper information is desperately needed, as there is so much fake information given, coming out of to money and power interests.

So my question is: How can I give the right information to people in need to help them help themselves? And how can I give this information without causing defense reactions coming out of resistance?

Answer: If there are defense reactions, then there is nothing you can do. It shows that the person is not ready. You can't offer the needed information, even though you know it would help them. You can only offer your understanding and your sympathy and then wait for this person to ask you something. When asked you can carefully give some information, but only as much as this person is able to receive and digest.

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Me: Dear alien, can you make us all conscious please?
I am of the opinion that the human species, including myself of course, are unfortunately a completely unconscious species that now can only damage themselves and their surroundings. The only hope is for mass awareness so all will be better soon. I hope the alien knows from experience with his kind how to achieve this and can give us advise or even better just make it happen!

Answer: Dear Me, I can understand you very well and you are touching my heart. I tell you that I am here to help you and every body who is asking for it. Yes, I can show you how to achieve to become aware even though it depends only on you and you will need to do all the work by yourself, but I can take care of you giving you advice how to do this in the most effective and creative way, so that it also can be joyful. Continue asking questions, I will be here to assist you, so that you soon will be able to answer all your questions by looking into yourself and not depending on any body...

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Falco: I don't think the aliens will come to save us when the Earth will be uninhabitable and bring us to their place. Yes, maybe a few of us to keep them as pets... Seriously: We have caused that our planet will soon kill us because we have unbalanced all life. If aliens have a higher awareness then probably they want to help. At least it seems like it if they offer to answer our questions. We are pretty stupid, but maybe not that stupid to reject this opportunity.

So I ask: Is there still the possibility to save this planet and also humanity? How could this be possible? What can I do as a single creature to do my part in this?

Answer: Yes, there is still the possibility to bring the course of humanity into the right direction: By becoming aware of ones dependencies on an established mindset that forces one to follow goals that are not serving ones growing. You are responsible for yourself and if you do what you can, then that's the best. You can do more than you are aware of it now. Be critical about what now seems to be part of yourself, but that is just adapted as part of the given mindset. Become yourself, find out what you really are...

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Big E: If aliens exist they are just as scared of us as we are of them.
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Answer: We are not afraid of you, even though we know how dangerous you can be when defending yourself, not wanting any changes in that what you believe you are. We will not expose ourselves to you, because you will use us for your dubious goals and reject all what we are able to give freely to you. With your fear you are protecting yourself, closing yourself and keeping yourself in your stuck condition.

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Monika: Wie machst Du dem anderen begreiflich, dass er selbst das Problem ist. Man erfährt es hier nur durch innere Eingebung, es ist nicht lehrbar durch Schriften, daher nicht für jeden zugänglich und somit sind ständig Reibereien, Konflikte, Kriege bei uns.

Answer: This indeed is the most difficult and there is hardly anything one can do to make some one understand that he or she is the problem and not the surrounding or others. You can't do much more except that you just be what you are and then out of this you present your energy. This doesn't need words or specific actions, and for sure 'books' can't give it, but you will transmit something with your energy that is beyond words and this will have a transforming influence on others.

* * * Schlaftrunk: Diente euch auch die Natur als Vorlage für die Gewissheit und das Mitgefühl?

Answer: The feeling for others comes from the connection with all beings and our relating to whatever shows up. Then we can respond and if the situation and condition allows it then we can act.
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Jerrick: If you are truly not afraid of us. And you don't want to show yourself to us because we're too afraid to accept your true goals to us. Then, why don't you show yourself to those who truly want to help your cause? I mean if you really do exist I would really love to help you "study" us. And if you do call yourself a "species", what are you called?
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Answer: Your question doesn't show a personal concern. I respond because I see it as coming out of shyness but you are wanting to make a first contact. I show myself in what I'm expressing and this is enough for the moment. I have no 'goals' to do something with humans, it is up to you what you are capable and willing to receive. You want to help my 'cause'? Then ask questions so that I can give an essential answer. I don't need your help to 'study' you. Observing you in your behavior and your actions is enough and your questions will also 'help' me.
You are used to give every thing a 'name' and then you believe you know what it is. This is part of how your mindset functions and that in the first place limits you to go beyond. We have no need to call ourselves names and you are right: I don't feel comfortable to call you 'humans'. I see you as *beings* and that at this moment you are stuck in your established mindset, that makes you to slaves of the established system. Your inbuilt urge to get out of this, causes most of the problems you are confronting in daily life - - - with yourself, because you are more than this!

Jerrick: I like your answer, but honestly, what does observing us affect you? We obviously need help on in this world. Most of us can't do a thing about because we are either to afraid to do anything about it, or we go way to far... If we're still evolving beings, then what can we do to not end ourselves? Oh, random question. When we let's say do see you, like UFOs or whatever you want to call them, is it accidental that we see you? Or are you letting us know that your here, just not ready to actually show us your purpose here... If you are actually like a real alien or... ya just. I wish could speak to you, like an actually discussion. Not just random question we can ask on here.

Answer: You didn't get it when I clearly expressed that you can ask me a personal question that is important for you, what means: For your personal development. I am not going to answer 'random questions'.
I can help you by giving some hints so that you can help yourself, but that's all, the work you have to do yourself. Sorry, but a personal contact like in a discussion is not possible, although I can feel with you and understand your need, but now you will need to concentrate on an essential question. It depends on you and isn't this quite some more than 'nothing at all'?

* * * Sesil: My whole childhood my parents have insisted that there is a God whom I must trust and believe in or I'm dammed to hell. Is this true for you? Can aliens go to hell and burn forever when they die? Or do you believe in something else? Sorry for the many questions but I'm finding it hard to progress in my life because of the religion I was born into.

Answer: When you were born, automatically you were introduced into the belief system of your society. The game started when you were told that 'Father Christmas' brought the presents. How did you deal with it when you found out that this is just made up for children? Then it continued telling you that there is a 'God', a 'hell' and more like this. As a child you were happy with your belief about Father Christmas, - until you changed it against other beliefs. Now as you have been growing up a bit more, some doubts are showing up and so also some questions. You are asking me, to  be able to compare and to find confirmation for your still existing beliefs or the opposite of them. I must disappoint you, because we don't have any beliefs. We use our emotions and our mental capacity in a different way. More like a tool and not being  identified with them to get ones feeling of existence out of them.
 
 
 
 
 

All those established belief systems of humans are giving people a kind of frame, but at the same time these are a trap holding the 'believer' in dependency and in a stuck state. You are all suffering from it even though you have found all kind of tricks to avoid the worst. I am here to show you some ways to get out of your self created straitjacket, but you need to ask for it...

You can keep your religion, but to 'progress' you will need to go beyond the 'belief' and realize the truth that is behind the simple traditional belief and that you can do by taking self responsibility and finding out about the real meaning - or you take the shortcut and find the truth within yourself, searching for it and getting to know about yourself. You did a good start by asking this question. Continue!

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Anonymous: Dear Alien, is happiness known in your world and if so, - what is happiness to you?

Answer: It is pretty much the same as here, with the difference that for us it doesn't depend on the fulfillment of wishes and dreams, that with humans is mostly the result of manipulation from the established mindset in your society. For us happiness comes out of the moment and that is by being conscious about being alive and relating and responding out of this to what shows up in this given moment. This doesn't depend on a certain kind of outside condition, situations and happenings that is 'wanted'. So we don't need to force anything to create desired conditions to be 'happy', like humans trying to do this and so constantly going from one goal to the next, mostly disappointed and being under stress. To resolve this dilemma, you will need to be more critical about what you are doing to 'reach happiness' and find out about your personal background. That will cause more questions...
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Anonymous: Are we really going in 2012  to experience big changes in consciousness as predicted by different sources?
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Answer: I suggest that you better take care of the necessary changes that you urgently need right now, that's much more important than worrying about something that might happen or not in the future. You humans are always finding something to keep yourself busy and worried. That's not a good way to grow, what includes getting rid of attitudes and habits that don't serve you at all! So better ask a question that helps you to let these 'big changes' happen within yourself!

* * * Sam: Dear Alien, is everything that happens in life predetermined? Do I decide or influence through my choices and actions the events in and direction of my life? Or does everything in life happen the way it is supposed to happen, regardless of my actions?

Answer: Humans are really funny. You are using the most ridiculous beliefs not to be responsible for your actions! When every thing is and happens the way it is supposed to be, then you can stay in dependency of those people who tell you what to do, without the need to relate and respond to what shows up and might need to be done. Of course your choices and actions mark and influence the direction of your life! That means you are responsible and to be able to do the best, you will first need to get out of dependencies of your old beliefs like that life is 'predetermined'. -
You even have an exciting movie about it! With your hero Arnold Schwarzenegger "The Predeterminator"! (I haven't seen it.)

* * * Question:What is beyond the stars and the Universe?
Answer:To be able to receive the answer to your question you need to fulfil the necessary conditions and that is: To go beyond the capability of your now too limited intellect. Your awareness is still bound to your personality and that is dependent on the program you have received from your education, coming out of a long history of manipulation, misinterpretation and the still primitive way of human thinking. Very few individuals were able to go beyond this and then when they expressed themselves, this again was squeezed into the limited mindset or it was just ignored. Nothing has changed.
I can give you an answer to your question and leave it to you what you can do with it. I even can give you a *key* so that you can prepare yourself to understand my answer, but it is up to you if you want to engage yourself that much.
One answer would be: Beyond stars and the Universe is *Love* and if you realise this within yourself, then you will 'know' that this is not bound to space and time. Now the word 'love' will be interpreted out of your established mindset and so stays on a level that makes an understanding of my answer impossible. So you need to go *beyond* your old wayof thinking. You sense what I mean?
If you have a question, then there will be an answer and your question is the first step for you to find an answer. Never make the statement that there is no answer, just because you don't know the answer. Open yourself for the answer, even though from your old point of view an answer is impossible to find. I hope that my answer opens the door, so that you can go for the complete answer that you will find within yourself...

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Question: What is Love?
Answer: How can one explain to a blind what 'colors' are? How can an ordinary person understand what 'art' is or 'enlightenment'? Words can describe something, but can't make that the awareness of a person widens up. If an explication fits into the established mindset, then there is what we call 'understanding', if it goes beyond, then there can't be understanding at all, except when 'understanding' is a mixture out of ones mindset with emotions. Indeed, there is something that one can call 'emotional understanding' and that can happen, when there exist a concept about something and that is not only intellectual, but also connected with ones emotions. The word 'love' is extremely loaded with images and concepts, due to the need of people being fed during history by various belief systems.
'Love' is felt when the conditions are fulfilled to be able to give and to receive. The level depends on the realized awareness of a person and the needs that are the most urgent. What are these? These might be basic needs like body needs being taken care of or emotional needs like not feeling lost and alone or needs related to ones mind like being comforted and confirmed in ones world view, self image and ones beliefs and all what makes oneself feel good. If this is completed, then there is felt togetherness, then there is felt trust and one can let go of fear and tension. Then there arises a feeling that is projected onto the other and seen as 'love'. Yes, it has to do with 'love', even though it depends on certain conditions, but is it 'real love'?
What is it that is attracting us to others? Is it the possibility that our needs are fulfilled? Is it the longing for 'togetherness'? Or is there something more?
Seeing far ahead of the established limited mindset, there can be the experience, that separation is an illusion: We are all *One*. Of course, as long as this is not realized in ones being, it is just another concept, so let us leave it for the moment as a theory, but it will help us to understand that there is an inbuilt *longing* in each of us, that goes together with the as well inbuilt *growing force* and so we are unconsciously longing to fulfill this urge. Now it depends on our state of awareness, where and how we are trying to get what we need. The most primitive level probably is when completing ones sexual needs, but in this getting the feeling of 'oneness' and satisfaction. Typically to this level it is called: 'Making love". So it continues to all grades and needs. Another example: Fulfilling the need for food, as it is said: "Love goes through the stomach!" If this need is fulfilled, then the person feels good and happy and then might project their feelings to the person who takes care so good...
In general one can say that if a person is comforted and confirmed in ones personality and that is the identification with all ones properties, then this can cause the feeling of 'love', projected to the one who causes this good feeling by confirming ones existence. Of course this is a quite delicate feeling and can easily disturbed when the conditions are changing...
All understanding is bound and limited to the level of awareness of a person and whatever shows up, will be interpreted and experienced on this level. As the awareness of the majority of humans is still very low, so 'love' is mostly connected with a person or something someone is relating to and then is experiencing certain reactions that are felt as 'love', because it fits into the existing description about love.
What love really is, is not possible to describe with words, it only can be experienced when a person is going beyond ones limitation and that is the established mindset of ones personality. Then this is a kind of 'knowing', but not in an intellectual sense, more as a quality of 'being'. If this state of being is realized in a person, then love doesn't depend on any conditions or circumstances, it is a state of being. Then you will also 'understand' the importance of love, - as the essence of all being.

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Question:How to convert people from ordinary outlook to philosophical outlook?
Answer:Your way to find satisfaction and happiness is by taking care and 'doing' things for others. In this you are engaged and you are using mainly your mind and your emotions. You are identified with these and you are getting your feeling of *existence* out of this. Your philosophy without doubt is a positive aspect of your mindset and it is part of your good intention, that you want to share this with others, because you feel good with it and it gives you sense and motivation. You see that people are suffering, because they are stuck in their 'ordinary outlook' and so you want to rise their level of mindset to where you are.
I am your friend, so allow me to express something that seems to go against you: Your 'philosophical outlook' is part of the 'ordinary outlook' and that is the established mindset of humans, as being part of their society. As you are getting your identification out of it, so you are limited to it and you are also stuck in it. That is the real reason for all the suffering on Earth! You can't convert the state of *being* of people by adding something more to their mindset, not even if this is of high quality. If you want to help people to rise their well being, then it is not enough to give them a better 'outlook', you will need to rise their *awareness*. This might not be possible with your intention of 'doing' but in the first place with your *being* and that is your *energy* you are representing and beaming. In its essence this is *love*.
You already know this my friend and so I can tell you: Go beyond your limitation being identified with your mind and don't let your feeling of existence depend on this.
If out of this there comes another question, then don't hesitate to ask me.

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Question: How do you solve the hard problem of consciousness?
Answer: Consciousness by itself has no problem. These are only showing up when consciousness is limited and stuck due to the identification with a certain state of manifestation. The discrepancy between consciousness and the form you are holding causes the hard problems. You can use these as a way to realize where you are stuck. See these 'problems' as reactions mirrored back to you, so that you become aware of it and realize that you are the cause and then you can use your decision to clear up your unconscious program that is holding you in your form, that is your 'personality', giving you the experience of *existence*, that is 'second hand' and not *pure being*.

* * * Question: Being independent, what is it really?  YahooAnswers
Answer: When people claim that they are independent, then because they have this kind of self image. Probably they also feel strong in their ideas and what they want. But in reality they are as dependent as others who not have this picture of themselves. All depend strongly on their mindset that they have taken over through education and other influences from the social system in that all live. All depend on this mindset, that also is influencing and including humans emotions, because they are identified with it and this forms their personality. They don't know that this is an illusion and they don't want to know about it, because they are limited to this and are not capable to go beyond.
As long humans are stuck in this limited view of themselves and the world, they can't be independent as they get their feeling of existence only out of their poor and limited awareness of themselves.
To be really independent, a person must have realized a state of being, that is an awareness that can be lived beyond the created reality of humankind, that has so strongly developed during humans history that in it's existing state, humans are totally separated from their origen and source. Humans live in total dependency from their personality within their fake reality. Humans are clinging on their dependency and only very few individuals are questioning themselves and their conditions.
Humanity as a whole will soon come to a critical situation, because tension is accumulating more and more, causing depressing and diseases. This is coming out of the discrepancy between humans fake reality and *reality*. The dilemma is, that humans can't see what there is *really*, because they are occupied and depending totally on their still primitive awareness, that will not expand as long they are clinging on their personality, with all their fake goals and values.
The very first steps out of their dependency they will do, when they question themselves when they have enough suffered and can't manipulate themselves anymore eliminating just the symptoms.
Good question, you should ask more...
Your Alien friend.

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Question: What is the purpose of being human?  Y!A
Answer: There is a purpose and you have been told about it. Your mindset is fed by traditional information filled with beliefs and concepts, but it is obvious that this doesn't satisfy you any more, otherwise you wouldn't ask. The reason is, that the purpose you have been told, feeds your mind and your emotions, but as this stays theoretical and kind of separated from yourself, it doesn't really fulfill you. For this you would need to *live your purpose*, because purpose is not a question of 'property', that you hold in your mind, but of *being*.
That there are showing up questions and doubts, is a positive sign and tells, that you are growing out of your naivety and ignorance and that your consciousness wants to expand. You are growing!
If you can acknowledge this, then you might be able to shift your focus from what you 'have and want' and also your identification with your properties, to something more essential that has to do with *living your being*. Then you will experience your purpose and that goes far beyond any possible explanation and interpretation.
Continue asking! I will be glad to be able to respond and this might also help others in their *growing* process.

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